4 month old sleeping in cot a few feet away

I know this might sound silly haha but just a genuine question!
Our 4 month old usually sleeps in a next to me cot right next to our bed. We’ve moved our room around and I have enough space now I can move her cot a few feet back and give myself room to get in and out of the bed without climbing down to the bottom.
Is this okay or is it still recommended for them to be right next to the bed?

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