Resentment towards partner?

I’m not sure if it’s a post partum thing or what but I really just dislike my partner! Not sure why because he is really great with the baby and helps out quite a lot and I can literally ask him to do anything and he’ll do it but I just can’t stand him or his presence atm I really hope it passes any advice ?

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How many weeks PP are you? When I was about 3 months PP my partner literally couldn’t do anything right! He’s was supportive, helpful, understanding, would do anything I asked and it got right on my nerves! I’m now 5.5 PP and couldn’t love him more if I tried. I’m putting it down to hormones because he didn’t do anything wrong!

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