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I’m in my 9th week and I don’t feel like seeing anyone or talking to anyone. I feel too tired to go out and socialise. I don’t even want to go to work, and I don’t feel like replying to messages. Do you think this is temporary, or should I seek some support? I haven’t discussed this with my midwife yet.

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you literally are assisting a baby in growing. In all 3 of my previous pregnancies I was too tired to do a damn thing by week 5. By week 9, don’t even ask me to go nowhere cuz the answer will be no 🤣🤣🤣🤣

You can talk to your health provider if you feel like it would help, but I think that is normal, at least for me. The beginning is rough because you are adjusting to little to no sleep, being a new mom and putting everything before yourself right now. Especially if you are breast feeding or pumping. Just try to enjoy the two of you. Everyone else can wait❤️❤️ I think I went back to work (one day a week) around 4 months. You got this girl and you know your mind better than anyone. If you feel like you are hopeless, not bonding well with your baby, or sad, then I would say talk to your doctor. But if its mainly just wanting to be left alone then I believe that is normal.

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