Emotional wreck..

I just feel like everything is so hard at the moment. I’m constantly in pain, exhausted, and so anxious all the time. I dont feel like my partner actually understands how anxious I am.. I said I wanted to book another reassurance scan as I was quite poorly last week and he just replied with ‘you’ll be fine’ like that would make me feel better.. I don’t know what to do other than tell the midwife how I’m feeling when I finally see her next week.. has anyone felt similar and found anything that has helped?

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Pregnancy Annoucement 💗

I finally announced my pregnancy on social media yesterday! ‘A New Chapter’ was the theme because I’m a big reader 🙈 a little cringe but ohhhh well 🤣

Did anyone else find announcing kind of nerve wracking?! As if I’m not about to be 30 and am totally allowed to have a family 🤣

Post partum weight gain 😭

I’m really struggling at the minute with accepting my body. I’m 9 months post partum.

Pre pregnancy I was a size 14-16 (I have PCOS and always struggled with my weight but I was feeling ok about myself pre pregnancy) I then lost a lot more weight in my first and second trimester due to HG and was the smallest I’d been in years whilst pregnant which felt amazing actually.

In my third trimester I put the weight back on and then some, as I could eat more food, I’m now a size 20 😭.

I’ve continued to put weight on post birth as I had a huge haemorrhage and post partum pre eclampsia which has taken many many months to recover from. I definitely found comfort in eating after the sickness left, and I was obviously sitting around a lot too with baby and not exercising much.

It’s caught up with me. In all honestly I hate myself, I feel disgusted with myself I can’t even look in the mirror.

I’ve been trying to eat better (hit and miss), I’m hitting the gym consistently, started personal training. I’m so much stronger and feel more toned but the weight won’t really shift. I’m still wearing size 20 jeans and have such huge hips.

I’m actually considering a weight loss jab or something similar, but I’m terrified of side effects which I’ve witnessed in family members like kidney problems, and I can’t afford to have any further health issues. I’ve only just felt better after my major haemorrhage 9 months post partum.

I know this probably isn’t a unique experience, and if it were a friend or family member I’d tell them to be kind and patient with themselves and say this body grew a perfect baby.

But I don’t know what to do anymore, I need change I want to feel myself again.

If anybody has any advice, shared experiences, anything that’s helped, I’d be so so grateful…

- a sad mama 😞 x

First outing with a newborn

When did you leave the house for the first time and what did you do? I understand no crowded places but I don’t want to go crazy being inside 24/7. Can I go sit on a patio at a restaurant with my baby? When did you go to your first indoor restaurant? Or first trip to the grocery store? I feel like I’m being too cautious… or maybe not cautious enough? My baby is healthy, to term and has had no issues. Do I really need to wait 6-8 weeks?

Emotional wreck..

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Pregnancy Annoucement 💗

Post partum weight gain 😭

First outing with a newborn

I’ve recently come across the ‘nub’ theory and would be interested to see if people think girl/boy?💙🩷

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How many weeks are you and how are you?