Extreme separation anxiety

Is really bad separation anxiety normal at 14 months? I’ve never had it this bad from my daughter before now. She won’t even sit in a trolley I’m pushing as she wants to be on my hip. She cries the entire time and holds her arms up for me, I’ve tried letting her get over it but she will literally scream down the shop and I end up leaving from embarrassment. She wont play, if I’m sat on the sofa she is crying arms up for me to pick her up which I’ve tried avoiding but it becomes unbearable. The tantrums too are so bad at the moment. Any advice appreciated because I’m going mad!

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Totally normal! We are just exiting this phase at 17months

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It will ebb and flow! It won’t suck the entire time I promise! 😮‍💨

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Normal. We went through it recently! She’s getting better (15 months now). Try to enjoy the cuddles 🙃

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