Feeling pathetic

Slowly come to realise I’m never THE friend I’m constantly the back up friend.
The one that’s always there for you but you’re never there for me.
Always free for your plans but never mine.

I’ve recently fallen out with my best friend who took more of my other friend with her.
I made up with an old friend
Who makes no effort to actually show we are friend never meets me but meets others all the time always an excuse whenever I asked her to meet.

Started talking to more old friends and more constant excuses as to why they can’t meet never message me just eachother always letting up together but I’m never invited.
It’s my birthday soon and I’m trying to plan something to go out.
Sisters on holiday
1 friend is also on holiday
People have “no money”

No one is “free” but the excuses are just excuses they’re not real

Starting to feel like I have no body.
Recently making some new friends at work.
But I’m anxious meeting new people having known all these other people for 10 years I haven’t had to meet new people so it’s all new to me

Sinking into a hole of depression

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My inbox is open girl! 🩷

I've been there and ended up taking a step back.

I promise not everyone will be like that. X

I have this exact same problem. All my old friendships have always been one sided like that. I have no friends now, but I wouldn't want to not even feel like an afterthought to people I care about.

I have this same problem ive just unfriended 3 school friends on Facebook as they never answered my messages even though theyd seen them 1 of them being my school best friend who I have know 35yrs I wanted her as my bridesmaid for my wedding next year the reply I got "yeah i suppose so" what kind of answer is that?

Sorry for the rant

Same! Always down for a message!

Same

I can relate. I knew my friends for 10 plus years and they were always making me the back up friend. One got into school and cut me off and the other one was my childhood bestfriend. But being cool and them other females were always put first. She cried and lost a good friend. Cut them off. It happens...because from what im hearing its their loss anyways. I need some friends. So if you message me we can do something for your birthday.

Story of my life… sorry you had to feel this way too

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