Help

Any suggestions for online therapy ? Needs to be free/very very cheap and discreet.
I've always struggled with my view of 'me' and now im worrying if that is going to affect my child.
I am also struggling in my relationship and have been for years. I know I need to leave but I just have got the balls to and keep making excuses and have nowhere to go. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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New friends

Hiii looking for new mom friends I am in upstate ny but open to online friends too! I need someone to send TikTok’s to 😩🤣

New bestie?

Looking for a mom bestie who actually texts back and doesn’t make it weird 😭 just easy convo, no awkward pauses, no overthinking replies like we can talk about life, kids, chaos, and random nonsense without it feeling like a job interview. Bonus if we can be funny and consistent 🫶 I want a real friend, not an off and on situation LOLL 😭

Indian Arranged marriage - Feeling like im loosing my freedom

It's been a year since I married and with in 2 months of marriage I got pregnant. I didn't want to have children but my husband said infertility rate is high and once its done we can enjoy. I don't know why I agreed. But my main problem is my mother in law. They have a big house and she expected me to do all the house work which I did not. I didn't do any house work except cooking. After getting married I did dishes and cooking. She calls all her relatives and says I'm not doing anything. I stopped doing all the house work once I got pregnant and I had to go office.I had anterior pregnancy so I got severe back pain. Mil still expected me to do all house work which I did not and she made 1 curry and ate for 3 days. I ate office lunch but dinner was one curry for 3 days. She made my pregnancy journey horrible. My breastfeeding journey too. I still have severe back and tailbone pain in 3 months postpartum. She somehow convinced my husband to make me work( house chores) at 3rd month I started doing hourse chores again this time a lot of work. I feel sick. I feel lost. I feel drained emotionally, physically and financially ( they take half my salary too and the rest goes for the baby or for the house). I feel stuck. My husband goes out a lot not only for work but for events, friends, gym etc. I started hating him like he expects me work in house and he enjoy's outside. Im now in my mothers house and don't want to go back.

Sex

Myself and my partner have a good sex life. We have 3 kids so it's kinda limited to what we can do , we love doing it in other places apart from the bedroom but with a 15 and 14 year old the Risk of getting caught isn't worth it. So I'm looking ways to spice it up a bit as I feel sometimes it's a bit boring for us. I'm willing to try most things to spice it up

I’m looking for someone to talk to

I’m looking for a friend I can tell my secrets too and even my days and talk about our days and our sons or daughters lives

Baby savers bank account.

Has anyone opened a bank account for their little one yet? If so which bank do you recommend going with.
We are looking at opening one but stuck on who would be best to go with, especially harder when so many branches are closing down so needs to be the right one to do most of it online.