Leaving my husband

, I am so fed up of being the default parent all the time and I am fed up of doing so much of the parenting and household shit. My husband does more than lots of men but I just feel like I would rather be on my own, at least then I would have some time on my own when he has his boys every other weekend. Am I over reacting?

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Not at all you’re taking care of the house yourself and the baby while he takes care of him ? And I’m sure you take care of him too who takes care of you when you burn out ? I’m on the same boat except mine has no friends so he sits around like everything’s perfect when not working and makes me resent being around him even more

What u have to remember is if u leave him, u are giving up 50% control. Once u have separate houses u cannot control what goes on in that house at all. Whether hes got women in that house or keeping the kids night routine solid or feeding them healthy foods. U are giving up control over half of their lives.

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Cheating?

My friend recently told me that my bf has cheated on me but here’s the catch. She didn’t have any proof and my bf timeline adds up to everything he said he was doing. he doesn’t really have time to go anywhere and he’s always at home. I do believe that he didn’t because he isn’t acting different in any kind of way, but he is a very private person. We have two kids together and been together since 2021. We recently had a baby in January. I truly don’t think he did anything but then why would my friend lie? I’m really confused.

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DO NOT ADD!!

Please don’t add @its_jasmineeexo on Snapchat! I’ll add another picture in the comments.

She’s a racist, homophobe and constantly belittles people. If you’re not chatting with her all day she’ll start arguments and belittle you. It’s not nice and she has a small group of followers. My friends and I have a Snapchat group with good vibes. She joined and completely ruined it. Once removed, she added people from my group and started adding them to hers, saying crude things. Check out the group name too; before it was “Hitler’s Hoes”.

If anyone is interested in joining a nice group chat with some lovely mums! Please comment below and will message you privately :)

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Sad 😢

My boyfriend took our 11 month old to go see his family for the day. I didn't go because they don't know I'm pregnant yet. I feel sad and alone, I really have no friends and I don't know how to be alone

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Going threw a breakup

Going threw a breakup finding it hard atm I have also just moved to a new area and away from all family etc
So it’s very hard atm
The loneliness is horrible
The anxiety it’s all just sad right now
My hearts hurting
I don’t want go into details
Just reaching out