Do you pack your husband’s lunch?

I saw this short of a wife packing her husbands lunch for work and there were so many comments of other women saying how they can do better and how they always send their men off in clean clothes and the best lunches. I’m flabbergasted lmao are we really doing this ladies?????? 😳🥴🫠

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Sometimes! I think it makes him feel extra special when I make lunch for him as a treat

My husband and I meal prep together for lunch/his breakfast for the week every Sunday. So…. Technically I am? I do pack it up for him every night and put a cute note or something 🤣 but no I’m not getting up and making his lunch daily.

Oh okay lol well that’s very nice of y’all.

My husband works nightshift and a very dangerous job so I do tend to cater to him. However, he doesn't expect it, he is certainly capable if I don't feel like packing his lunch he gets it on his own. But I do spoil him I guess cause he usually has homemade cookies every day and homemade bread for his sandwiches. Sometimes I put a cute note in his lunch too. 😄💕

I make my husbands lunches. I love cooking for him in general 🤷🏼‍♀️

No, I don’t pack his lunch. I don’t have time for it, I gotta go to work.

I wouldn't say I cater to him lmao but yes I pack his lunch most days. He works long hours so I can stay home and be with our baby. I hate working🤣

My husband makes and packs mine 😂

No but he ain't exactly packing mine either.

Sometimes,but also he takes leftovers from the dinner I make. But when am not able to make dinner or make lunch he is ok with it and will just take some sandwiches

I do my partners lunch for work everyday and personally enjoy doing it for him 😄

i meal prep my partners lunches and he portions it out and packs it in the morning. but he doesn’t expect me to

We do the same job -even though I've been working part time since having our baby- and no, I don't make his lunches.

Literally not even once and we’ve been together over 9 years.

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Would you attend a funeral with a baby?

Girls.. help! So my nans brothers funeral is tomorrow and we were only going to go to the wake because who tf brings a baby to the service, let alone the whole days worth of planning for naps and feeds. Yet my nan is driving me crazy keeps pestering me and my mum repeating herself about "oh but can't C(my partner) just wait in the car with R(baby) and then all go to the wake together". Like are you f****** kidding me, its so disrespectful and makes me not even want to go, I'm only going in the first place to be respectful to her, I barely knew him. Now I've just found out that bringing a baby to a funeral/wake is bad luck. So now I don't even want him to go to that. Honestly I've had enough with this bs. What would you do? Would you bring your baby to a wake?

Kleptomaniac‼️

I’m not sure how to say this, it’s pretty embarrassing hence the incog, but I’m at a complete loss.

My husband is a total kleptomaniac!

I’m finding it so difficult and uncomfortable whenever we go out because he just can’t help himself. It’s always petty stuff, he doesn’t need it half the time, and even then it’s not like we can’t afford it. But he just can’t help it!

Sometimes I catch him doing it and shoot him a look without being to obvious but he thinks it’s funny. Once we’re out the shop the same conversation/lecture happens where I ask him why he’s doing it and that he needs to stop, but he laughs it off. Other times I literally don’t see a thing and am in complete shock but I aways feel embarrassed.

He’s been caught once or twice but nothing serious has happened. One of these days I can see him getting into a lot of trouble for it but he can’t see it that way, he gets such a kick out of it.

What do I do?

Husband says I blew him off.

Yesterday Mother’s Day, husband said I can do whatever I want to do since it’s mother’s days. So I decide to do a video crafting session with my twin and had a friend join who I haven’t talked to in a long time. Well husband decided to play a game last night and got done around 9pm. Sundays are our normal hangout nights for me and the husband. Well he was playing his game so I decided to stay talking to my twin. He calls me after he finished his game around 9pm. I tell him I’m still talking to people he gets mad. Mind you we don’t have to do our thing on Sundays. Well I finish up with my twin around 9:30. I go to find him to do our thing and he’s passed out in bed. Well fast forward to this morning he’s pissed at me and ignoring me saying that I blew him off last night. And I’m like I told you what I was doing, you told me that I’m free to do whatever I want with the day. And now he’s being a dick to me. Like how am I in the wrong?

Nursery advice.

Long post.

My daughter was on a waiting list to join a nursery, we managed to get her a place and we was so excited for her to start in September.

Unfortunately, my partner was made redundant (his workplace was right next door to the nursery and suited the hours) so I emailed to cancel her place… which I definitely rushed into without thinking.

We’ve now made arrangements for her to go to this nursery so I emailed to see if she can still rejoin and explained the situation. Do you think this nursery will still accept her if a space is available still?

Why do so many of ya'll assume a SAHD is a pedo, a loser, or just trying to steal you all from your husbands?

Could it be possible that SAHD's just love thir kids, need a support system, and want their children to be able to have playdates and friends?
My SAHD doesnt want you or your children. So stop banning my kid from playdates and socialization souly because of whats in his pants.

Tax free childcare

I have applied for the childcare funding which has been approved, I had a message to say I should hear regarding tax free childcare within 7 days but it has been nearly 3 weeks, just wondered how long it has taken other mums to hear back and if I should
chase!