I hope this gets to the Right Person

4am thoughts
Hey friend am looking for you and can’t find you ?
It’s so damn hard making friends today , i am 39 , Married with kids and I really wanted someone that i can just meet up and shop together, shit you want to get away from those kids girl l..who picking up who and where are we going, shit I feel like a old lady at times now. Love going to goodwill , thrift stores, walk around the open malls well whatever is left, some malls are shutting down, shit meet at the park or a library omg
Like the summer is approaching and I want to have a smoking friend or two and can’t find one….soooo damn sad!

I can’t be the only one that feels like this?

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I know I’m wrong but I can’t help it

When I met my boyfriend we never really were on the same page sexually, he was a virgin and has more traditional views on sex and I’m much more flexible, and experienced. For this reason we have a lot of disconnect in the bedroom. He likes very vanilla clean experiences meanwhile I’m into more intense experiences. Since being pregnant I am like a feral cat and I’m craving the kind of experiences that I prefer and I’ve explained this with him but he just doesn’t exactly get it. I find myself thinking about past experiences with other men and I knowwww it’s wrong. I love my man but like …. Sexually we are just so far apart and often times after our experiences I’m either dissatisfied or having to satisfy myself another time when he’s not around. I don’t know what to do 🥺.

Extra income

Hey mamas on maternity/ stay at home mums. What things if so does anyone do for a little extra money? I sell on Vinted but need would like to make a little more if I can while I’m at home. Need inspo 😂❤️

Condom broke

I’m 5 months pp and the condom just completely broke and I can’t even use plan B cuz I still weigh too much 😭. Just need reassurance. Did u get pregnant again quick? I was pumping the first 3 months and got my period like right at 7 weeks but it’s been extremely irregular like I got my period twice in a month. Now I’m breastfeeding and pump once a day. I’m hoping the breastfeeding is stalling my ovulation but idk man. I’m gonna get ovulation strips in the morning. I really can’t have another baby rn ugh.

Group Chat

Looking for moms that want to be in a group chat. I am 3 weeks PP and home alone most of the day with our baby girl. I get overwhelmed at night time, feeding every few hours. I am home most of the day alone with her and it gets lonely sometimes. The hormones are all over the place rn.I'm just looking for a group of girls to check in with, vent, celebrate, etc. Lmk if anyone is interested.

Soooo I'm pregnant again

I'm pregnant with my second baby, around 10 weeks now and my daughter it's only 18 months 🫪 it was not planned but that doesn't mean it's not loved, the issue comes because me and my baby daddy have been going through a really hard time in our relationship and to be honest we were separated for 3 months last year and decided to try again and this past month and the beginning of may were pretty rough we almost decided to separated for good this time, argument were getting a little too heated and I was done to be completely honest I wanted out.
My family and friends already don't love the idea of me staying because they don't like him because of the last time we separated he was pretty mean and petty and just not being a good father or a good man in general so now I have to go and spend a weekend with family and hide a pregnancy that they would be so disappointed and probably not happy about and still I don't know when I would be able to tell them because of all of this I'm just scared and I can already heard all the things they want to say or will say and I just don't want it. I'm scared and It doesn't even feel real to me because of everything that happened
My baby daddy and I talked and we came to the conclusion that we want to keep trying to be better and make it work for us and our family, but I also don't believe it 100% and I have people telling me things about him and I just hate it all I hate being in this situation he won't even be able to stay with me over the weekend with my family for the same reason and I'm just so done with all of this I'm tired I don't know what to do or say or even think at this point 😭😭😭😭
I'm sorry it's so long and I'm just venting because I can't talk like this or about this with anyone around me. 🙃

Just found out

Just found out and we aren’t telling anyone yet! Super excited but I’ve been dying keeping it secret already 😅 so just thought I’d post here to help me feel a little better and be able to talk about it 😅❤️