I cannot stand my neighbors

The people across the way suck. When we first moved in, they were using our driveway as overflow parking. The wife got pissed when I asked them to move their big ass vehicles. After that, they decided to spray for "pests." They sprayed all over, including our driveway area, and killed the bees. Now, they have an above ground pool. That's fine. My issue is that they dump stupid amounts of chlorine into it, and then proceed to empty it out onto the ground almost daily. If you're dumping it, why add chemicals?! They're shaped like the humans in wall-e and I just am done with them. Thank you for coming to my TedTalkRant.

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My neighbors use my driveway to turn around in, and it drives me insane

Lol looking like the wall-e humans 😂

I'm sorry you're going through that. I would do my research to see what you can do about legally

My neighbors cant use their driveway cause they got a broke down van in it and they won't get rid of it they use is as storage now its packed full so they think since there is a couple feet behind my car they can use it to turn around and they have hit many things with their car I can see the damage on it I dont want them anywhere near my car

I’d look into it but I’m pretty sure in some areas, if not most residential areas, it can be illegal to dump that into the ground like that, especially daily.

Also, they must enjoy wasting money if they’re doing that 🤦🏽‍♀️

They haven't damaged my property, just their own, thankfully .

We have neighbors who the dad live across the street from us and the son lives behind us in the backyard. They'd cross through our yard to get to their houses. One time the daughter of the son snuck a boy over and when they were walking back to his car I had my baby out on the porch and heard a male voice coming from our backyard and I freaked out. I told them to stop using our backyard and they won't talk to or look at us anymore 😅 also....we finished off our fence so they can't do it even if they tried.

in our community

Vent post

We’re getting ready for a party at 3pm.

I’m inside cleaning the kitchen, bathroom, living room, front entrance, and floors, plus prepping the food and taking care of the kids.

He’s outside power washing patio stones in the rain and taking down Christmas lights that I gave up nagging him about in March because he insisted they were “party lights.” But now that we’re having an actual party he takes them down?!

When I asked him to just leave it and focus on the main areas, he said “let’s not be at each other’s throats before everyone gets here.” Like, totally invalidating my very valid point. Now he’s taking empties back while I just chug along, I guess.

At least my stepdaughter took the boys out for a couple hours, but still.

Ok, back to it…

Shouting at baby? I feel like the worst mum ever

I feel so shit and awful as I write this my poor baby boy he’s my rainbow baby and I shouted at him a couple times earlier today cos he just wouldn’t settle no matter what I did we’re deep into the sleep regression so I’ve had no sleep and partner is away for work and it’s all on me he’s six months old and I just feel awful cos he kept crying and crying and crying it was so crap please tell me he’s gonna be okay I feel like I’ve affected him :( x

Does this look like teeth?

He’s just turned 3 months on the 8th and I think I’m seeing teeth? He’s my first baby so not sure what I’m seeing is teething or normal

Visiting day nurseries

I am visiting a day nursery on Monday which will potentially be where my son will go after Christmas when he is 11 months.
What questions would you definitely ask? Want to go in prepared.

Nursery Fear!!

My baby is currently 7m and I go back to work in September. I am …. terrified. There seems to be nothing people can say to make me feel better :( Hoping to hear from mums who felt like me and turns out it isn’t so bad? It’s the fact of me missing them and feeling like a part time mum, plus my social media has picked up a terrifying algorithm showing me all the children getting abused or even killed at nursery! I’m ruining my own maternity leave by worrying about this but I can’t seem to help it. Only going back part time but there’s no way I can afford to do any less than 3 days a week, sadly no village to rely on so nursery is the only option! I can’t bare the thought of him needing me or me missing out on firsts - then only seeing him a couple of hours before bed :(

Arguing

Me and my husband keep arguing and bickering over small things. I don't know what it is but it's like we are both frustrated with each other. I don't know how to stop especially in front of our daughter. I just can't be bothered.