who’s wrong (long one )
my partner is in the bedroom sleeping. I’m giving the children a bath. All three of them are out my 3 year old was in the bath. My 2 yo was in the front room watching TV and my 1yo was walking around and I went in the kitchen to check my phone for like one minute I was not there long just to check messages I turned around and he’s standing behind me looking at me like I’ve done something wrong and he made me jump. I just walked off because I already knew why he was annoyed. He’s annoyed because I left my daughter in the bath even if it was for one minute and iknow she’ll be fine she’s old enough, and he’s annoyed because I left my 1yo walking around because she could’ve gone in the bathroom and done something she shouldn’t whatever he thought, and he was talking to me and telling me why I did it was wrong and I wasn’t even looking at him cause I just felt so embarrassed and fed up and annoyed with arguing with him all the time and I just was saying to him “it’s okay. It’s okay! “trying to just tell him to stop i know i get it and then he said he felt like I disrespected him by basically telling him to just be quiet. he asked me if it’s the first time i’ve done it I said no it’s not, and he said well if it’s not the first time then how am I telling him to be quiet if I already know.. he said i should of rather just said to him “yeah iknow i wont do it again” rather than just ignoring him and shutting him up and walking off like idk i just feel so stupid rn for the way i reacted and idk why i even reacted that way pls help😔😒😒😒😒
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aside from that to make it worse, he said that I should be careful because “i can get it” as if he’s going to hit me .. i’ve told him about this multiple times he’s said this to me i just felt so fed up when we’re good we’re good until it’s me that messes up again! Feels like things will get better we have intense conversations and make up except they never do get better because it’s always me that messes up, on top of that when he did go to work I was texting him angrily swearing annoyed complaining all that, saying can he send me money so I can order a dummy because I lost it and he was saying no I shouldn’t do that because it’s late and he doesn’t want anybody coming here this late, he thinks it’s disrespectful the way i text him because he’s at work and I’m just texting him all these messages and giving him missed calls except then he starts insulting me calling me a fool and dumb crazy all that and expects me to react a certain way when he’s just insulted me because of what i did.
It is not safe leaving the a kid in the bath alone to check a phone. He is right about that. However, he should have helped
I honestly don’t think your partner has any say if he’s literally sleeping in the other room? your not stupid for the way you reacted, you know your babies so if you know they won’t do anything within that small amount of time you turned your back I dont think he should have to worry or have a say about it.
He talks to you like you're a child. It's really not a big deal. Also I'd leave a 3 year old in the bath while in another room. If it was the 1 year old I'd understand
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