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Im a month postpartum and for about two weeks, i have been feeling alot more in the mood. I keep telling my partner i want to have sex. But hes scared about me getting pregnant again and so am i. But he wont wrap it up. Any advice?

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That’s a hard one lol. I know that’s gonna be us. 😭 I’d say pull out method but dr said that’s only 70% effective. Pull out and morning after pill? 🤔 that’s all I can think about personally. Best of luck to yall!!!!

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He’d rather not have sex at all than wear a condom? Man the male species is weird. Also, you should wait until you’re cleared to have sex you could hemmorage (bleed out) you have wound in your uterus the size of a dinner plate.

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Or I think also!! They have spermicide stuff that’ll kill on contact!! Google it!!

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Do all 3 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔 triple the protection. :) and maybe also just make sure you’re not ovulating heheh.

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So what’s his reasoning for not wearing a condom???

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If im gonna be completely honest, my man doesn’t really like to wrap it up either but if he has to he will. We just haven’t bought a box yet😅🥲 but I mean he pulls out🤣🤣 When I was freshly PP I think we waited 5 weeks to

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Birth control ASAP lol

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