I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with my second, for those who have had their second any advice? My toddler is end of April little girl very very clever very switched on language amazing able to communicate well asks questions and expresses feelings. She goes to nursery part time is with my mam a little but I only work part time as I still want to spend time with her before school. She’s quite sensitive I would say and is starting to pick up on things already adults mentioning baby, baby parcels arriving stuff coming down from the loft. She’s interested in my belly strokes and kisses it and asks questions about the baby. But I do think it’ll be a huge huge change for her and that she may struggle at first. Is there anything I should be doing? Anything I should be explaining? My partner just keeps saying you will always be our number 1 😭 we’ve recently moved her into her own room in preparation, I’m trying to find a balance of spending these last few weeks with her but also setting boundaries as she does require a lot of attention from me and would prefer I did things over anyone else
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My LO was very attached to me until I had my baby. Lots of friends said it would change once baby came and I didn’t believe it would happen but apparently we have lots of lovely hormones while pregnant which makes our toddlers more attached. The only two things I did was make sure I wasn’t holding baby when they’re first introduced and focused my attention on my toddler and also bought him a gift from baby. He hasn’t been jealous at all and the second has brought a nice dynamic, my toddler loves her more than anyone else! Not sure if it’s his temperament or the things at the beginning helped. I also always encourage his affection rather than tell him to stay away from her, even if she’s sleeping x