Male nursery worker

I never thought I would be THAT person and always thought men could be just as good in a daycare setting as women. However now that my son is now moving to a room with a male nursery worker, I suddenly feel uncomfortable 🙈 I’ve met him and he’s a lovely person, but I think the recent news headlines have just gotten to me. Has anyone else felt this way? I feel so ignorant but it’s so hard when you’re handing your child off to someone you barely know, especially when they’re still at nappy stage.

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I can understand the worry but women can be just as likely to be as bad as some men they’ve been many headlines of women hurting children in a variety of ways at nurseries. But I do understand the worry as it’s drilled into us that men are the perpetrators, stick with your gut and if you have any worries or concerns ask to see the ctv footage(if they have cameras) ❤️

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