Caught Husband Watching Girls Videos

Long story Short , am I Wrong for being upset at my husband for watching provocative lustful videos of girls half naked dancing and grinding on FB Reels AFTER he swore up and down he ignored those kind of videos. Not to mention I clearly stated and thought in that moment we both understood that I am not ok with him watching those kind of videos because 1.) they make me insecure asf since CLEARLY I do not have their bodies hello I’ve had 2 of his children and am currently 4 months Pp Breastfeeding mom
And 2.) he’s watching and enjoying another woman’s body Ass boobs etc and pleasuring his mind which makes me feel not good enough not beautiful enough for my own husband. And 3.) ITS NOT THAT HARD TO SWIPE PAST THEM. It’s a CHOICE to sit there and go down a rabbit hole of video after video after video and all the same person just in different lingerie whatever. My mind is messed up now and I don’t want him to see me naked anymore or even feel like having sex anymore because I just don’t look like those girls and I’m the complete opposite of them my body is still recovering from giving birth I’m trynna find my spark back and this just made me feel even worse now. Yes he apologized and kept saying he doesn’t want them and Bs Bs but now I don’t believe anything he says… cause I did at first and look what tf was the truth.

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I had a first time dad say babies that's breastfed have a 3% iq higher than a baby that's being formula feed. I told him it don't matter if they are breastfeed or formula feed it depends on the parents if they are teaching them and sI ending time with them vs just putting them in front of a tv or tablets. He said I sound stupid.

Experience with not circumcising

Hi!
Having my baby boy any day now. My first is a girl and in a way that felt easier for the sake of feeling like I know what comes with being a girl. Me and my partner decided not to circumcise our son but everyone I know has been circumcised or circumcised their sons. I understand why people do circumcise it but it’s not something I’m comfortable with and don’t want to for the sake of “everyone else does it”.

Can anyone give me advice or tips or what to expect with not circumcising their sons? Feeling lost and anxious over it.

TIA!

Does your baby wake up

I have a 4 month old when he is sleeping dad and I will start having sex. Since the baby was born he will wake up almost every time. He’s usually a hard sleeper.
Is this normal? If this happens to you is your baby a boy or girl?

Hey mommas

For my anxiety ridden, overthinking mamas….. how do y’all function? Like I’m serious. Idk if there’s a medicine I can take to relax or just pray it out of me…idk…..but I notice EVERYTHING. Every smirk, every loss of eye contact, every text that i may be interpreting wrong… all of it. Overthink and just become filled with anxiety. My simple interactions turn into “why did they say it like that?” Or “they must be thinking badly of me or they don’t really like me.”

I knew it was bad this morning when I asked daycare if they need anything else for the grad party tomorrow. The response was kinda strange to me so I assumed she must not really want me to come and that maybe I should buy something else today to give to make things better. Like ………………….

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Are you supposed to change from nappies to pull ups when they start walking? I’m still using nappies

Sleep training guilt

We've just sleep trained our 4.5 month old and it's worked really well. Gone from 4-5 wake ups each night with needing to feed back to sleep + nerve wracking transfers, to 10.5 hour sleeps with minimal stirring and no crying to sleep. He's a happy boy during the day too, and goes down for naps fairly easily in his cot too.

We did NOT use the cry it out method, but still why does social media shame me and make me feel like the worst parent ever 😥 there are so many nasty comments about how I don't love my son if I chose to sleep train him and how I've created attachment issues, despite no research suggesting that whatsoever.
Sorry, just came to vent ☹️