Postpartum

The way I have been begging for a friend is pathetic I’m going on different sites downloading whatever app so I can talk to somebody and it’s really not working. Idk whats wrong with me I just want to be held and cry as hard as I can I have no real family in NY and I’m just spiraling drinking ain’t helping neither is crying but I keep doing it. I swear I never been like this I’m so sad and weak . I hate the person I am 😔😞

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Dont know what to do. SAHM wanting to leave husband

Wanting to leave husband and take my kids with me across state lines to live with family. Have never really had a job. Every time I tried to get one he would quit talking to me until I left the job. Always told me he was the provider and I was a stay at home mom. But now its getting bad between us. He gets jealous of our kids getting to spend time with me, he has mood swings like no other. He is very back and forth on everything making it unstable for the kids. There is so much more, but I feel stuck because of having no job or way to support my kids. Let alone a lawyer that costs $6,000. Any advice or suggestions hoping would be helpful.

Am I a bad friend for denying being a Godmother to my best friend’s child??

I really need to know if I’m in the wrong here… okay here it goes. Years back my best friend got pregnant mind you this was her second pregnancy after miscarrying her first, which she never announced it to me until she was 7-8months in. That broke me because we shared everything… so with her second one I knew right off the bat, which brought us a bit closer then ever. Months after giving birth, she asked me to be her baby’s Godmother and at that time you guys have to understand I was dealing with a lot I just launched my business, I was in school, I made debts after debts It really was a blessing but the busiest part of my life. I had politely declined and stated my reasons and she just said “okay” with nothing else to say. We haven’t spoke since that day marking it 2years and boy I miss her soo much but I don’t know whether what I did was wrong enough for me to start and apologise first and make things right, or should I just leave things as is?? Help!!

Would this be an ok present/replacement?

Im the one that posted last night about the husband who wanted anal hookup /3some...

Im thinking of getting him an anal sex doll.. would that be an ok present/ replacement for his request

Finding motherhood lonely

This is my second child and I find being a mother incredibly lonely. I don't have many friends they all work full time or live a long drive away so I don't see them that much. All my family work full time and don't have kids.

I feel isolated at times, I would say I'm an introvert so I don't tend to leave the house much, but if someone was to communicate with me first I will talk back I'm incredibly shy at times no knowing what to say.

I am 32 years old and I feel like it's hard to make friends at this age.

I take my 4 month old to a baby group on Fridays for an hour but it's not the kind of group where you can talk to other mums. I want to force myself to go to more baby groups in the week but I'm so anxious about going somewhere new.

I feel like she's a bit behind as she doesn't see other babies much to watch them.

WE ARE MARRIED BUT I STILL DONT TRUST HIM!!

Sooo… I’ve been in a relationship with my now husband for 2 years and we just got married about a month ago. This relationship was the best thing that’s ever happened to me and he confirmed it himself after being cheated on in previous relationships. The first year we couldn’t say away from each other to the point he promised to marry me. Fast forward 2 years in I had a gut feeling and went through his phone and found he was flirting with over 10 women. (I still remember all those chats as if it was yesterday) I confronted him, he was sincere and apologised and vowed never to do it again. 2 months later I found out he was talking to his ex basically talking about how he could have done things differently. Again I confronted him he apologised and promised to never do it again. I forgave him… 😩another month or 2 later I discovered he was having sexual chats with a women basically miles away and on top of that had started talking with another ex of his cause she owed her money and was organising to get it back by driving to her soon. Again I forgave him but the relationship was never the same we tried fixing it and it seems like he has changed and he even proposed and vowed to be loyal but I can’t trust him anymore. How do I go about this😭😭

Am I wrong?

Me and my husband been married for a few years now and when we first started dated I worked full time as a manager of this company and he was in law enforcement he told me he wanted a baby and he wanted to take care of me so I can finish school I agreed on the condition I would stay home to care for the baby as I don't trust anyone to watch my kid he agreed so I agreed to have his baby on this condition. So I het pregnant and a few months in something happened that he ended up leaving his job and we started to struggle financially. I had our baby a few weeks ago and he keeps pressuring me to get a job I know we need the help and I don't mind working but he knew the only way I would have his baby is if I was a sahm so am I wrong for resenting him a little oh and also im supposed to work overnight but im the only one that gets up at night he's a great dad in the daytime while he's awake but at night he doesnt even flinch when our baby cries so I don't really even trust working overnight because im not sure he will take care of our baby am I wrong for thsi?