How have people coped with partners returning to work after paternity leave? My partner goes back tomorrow but I’m so worried I’m not gonna manage on my own with baby🥺
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You'll be ok. My partner had 1 week off and then my mom left after 5 weeks. Don't put too much on your plate each day. Maybe just plan to do 1 thing per day. Door Dash and Uber eats when cooking feels overwhelming. Take it day by day.

I feel like the first week or two is the hardest then routine kicks in. A lot of the time now I’m ready for my partner to go back to work if he’s been off so me and baby can get back to our routine but if possible I try to plan to 1-2 things a week to look forward to like go to the nearest coffee shop and get myself some nice cake if no one’s free to get me out the house at least x good luck you’ve got this! Xx

You can do it ❤️ it feels like a lot at first but you're built for this ❤️
Don't worry if much doesn't get done the first few days or weeks ❤️ just spend the time with your little one making sure they get what they need.
If you can have a friend pop by to help feed you or sort out any chores definitely do it ❤️