Drunk partner

next to you is wild, especially if you didn’t consent to want to hear/see that. If you aren’t upset about the act of him doing it and more about the invasion of doing it next to you then I would bring it up to him that It was disrespectful and he needs to find privacy for himself and respect you an find elsewhere to do that. I mean some guys just do it out of not giving a fuck/already under the influence and others to literally make you feel a certain type of way, like oh you won’t do it so I’ll do it in front of you. Which is very distasteful. Respectfully he needs to check his ego and be a man and have more respect for your presence and respect your choices with saying no and what you would feel most comfortable to be around/have happen near you. It’s your body, your choice. Same with him but consent is always key. If he felt he wanted to do that and couldn’t have the decency to respect you sleeping and your choices then that is just a red flag and will only allow him to go further.