Miscarried and dumped all today

So I had some really bad bleeding last week, and my on told me to test at home. The line was much fainter, and then today it wasn’t there at all. I cried all morning while my boyfriend hugged me and said he wanted to take this as a sign to stop trying, because he’s worried about my mental health. He said “I already lost my mom, I can’t lose you too.” And those words felt very comforting, and I knew I’d get through this.

Then I came home from work. My dog was on his leash outside, tied to the railing, with all my packed bags. He heard my car pull up and texted me that he was “done” and I needed to leave. He won’t offer me any explanation, and just keeps name calling over the phone saying I should “run back to my daddy” (he knows I haven’t talked to my dad since I was 17), and calling me a bitch and other names he’s never called me.

I feel shocked, and I don’t really know what to do. My kids (previous relationship) were in the back seat of the car already, picked up from school. I loaded up my trunk, but now I’m just sitting here, and I don’t know what to do. I feel shocked and confused and rejected and betrayed and lost. I can’t figure out how we got here, from where we left things this morning.

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Newborn peeing on himself

Has anyone got any tips to stop baby boy peeing on himself during nappy changes? Ive tried the cold wipe on belly before taking nappy off but doesnt work. He seems to pee just as im about to put the new nappy on after cleaning him. Im currently just putting a muslin over his privates to try catch the wee

Is it normal in a marriage to feel like roommates?

We are pregnant with our second, been married 4 years, I feel no attention or effort in my marriage towards my needs (more so emotionally) and it's been 7 years.

My husband is on contract work for now

I feel sad and like nothing changes. He's more invested in our daughter than I feel he is our marriage and I'm not feeling very happy

Did she do it on purpose?

My dad and brother when they were young, had an episode of manic behaviour due to high stress. The other day I was talking with my cousin and she asked how my little boy is. I told her he is a bit wild and having lots of energy compared to his sister. Then she said something like “ oh you know in every family we have dregs/ scum , maybe he is like your crazy dad and brother” and made it as a joke
Also her brother sufferers from depression and she can’t get pregnant.

It’s making me so angry

So I’m English partner is polish - we picked a name for our 2 year old that is English written and said English and birth certificate it’s England

His side of family keep saying it in polish and I have asked multiple times for them to say it and spell it the English way

Other day was it’s birthday - they kept doing it all the presents was all to do with learning polish when I sent them a birthday list etc it’s just making me so angry

They have even said to my partner ‘we will make him polish’

When they are around me they speak polish all day (even at my son birthday party) I have said multiple times I don’t like it as I don’t know what’s going on or what they are saying

We have a day out with them Saturday and I’m dreading it

My partner completely understands where I’m coming from worst thing is even the kids speak to in polish when I’m trying to interact and speak to them being nice so I just say quite. They can all speak read and understand English

High chairs

I have got the my babbie high chair but it’s so hard to clean as all the food gets stuck in all the cracks every time she eats and it’s starting to smell even though I’ve deep cleaned it. Looking for easy to clean high chairs

I yelled at my 4 year old

She wouldnt stop waking up crying tonight.
The first two times i was still awake so i went in & talked her down & she pinky promised shed go to sleep. I told her "I'm going to sleep now too, im not coming back in"
And of course as soon as i fall asleep she wakes up crying again.
My husband tries to calm her down but of course she only wants mommy.
Being awoken like this enrages me. It always has; even before having children.
I go into her room steaming anger saying I TOLD U I WASNT COMING BACK IN WHY ARE YOU CRYING STILl. And i know i scared her but what the fuck else am i supposed to do?? Going to her calmly doesnt stop her from waking. Talking about it during the day doesnt help either. She does this like once a month??
And im just the shit mom who yells at her daughter at night once a month. Idk wtf to do. My husband says let her cry but then I CANT SLEEP. which pisses me off more. I cant win. & shes just gonna keep doing it cause shes a kid & she cant help it.