Father day

Hey ladies.

Will you be getting your partners anything for father's day from baby bump?
My partner has a 6yo daughter and I am sure her mum will be getting something for her daughter to give to him.
However, do I buy anything?
I got a mother's day card this year and some flowers, is it fair I do the same?
He is so excited to be having another little girl and I want to keep that enthusiasm going!

Any ideas on gifts too! He's not very social, he doesn't drink...

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Baby’s surname

My partner messaged other women during my first trimester when I was signed off sick and struggling apparently I didn’t give him enough attention; since then he’s been lying constantly about anything and everything and even admitted he has a problem. He’s moved out and I’m 6 months pregnant already a single parent and juggling it all alone.
Of course he’s welcome to all appointments, the birth, and can be as involved as he likes but am I wrong in now considering taking his surname off the list and keeping mine?

He believes this gives him less of a connection to his son and makes him less of a dad?

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Hey everyone, I'm currently 31 weeks today and after hounding my HR/Payroll dept they finally got back to me and because I moved NHS trusts during early pregnancy I'm not eligible for SMP.
They said they'll need to give me a SMP1 to apply for maternity allowance..
has this happened to anyone else?
To make things worse the lady is on AL for two weeks now and no one can send me the form so I can get the ball moving... as I hear it's quite a lengthy process????
Is anyone else going through similar? Xx

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Does anyone ever respond on this app?

I need someone to talk to, I’ve been stressing out with my marriage and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’m in California and would love to make some friends to hang out with. It’s really hard to make friends at my age but it’s worth a shot. I have 4 kids and sahm. I need to go out and get away once in a while :)

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