Answer honestly

Once a week on a weekday evening. Sometimes he’d go play pickleball for an hour or 2 on a Sunday afternoon when our baby’s napping — but that’s agreed between us before be makes the plan and he would never arrange something I don’t agree with

If you count working out, he’ll wake up extra early and workout in our garage before work. But other than that, not a lot. He works insane hours.

Probably less than once a month, he enjoys gaming but with a 3yo and a 2month old he doesn't get much of a gap to actually play at the moment. Though he does take our toddler for a run (in a jogging stroller) at least once a week.

Whenever we need to do something we both have opportunity to do it. Sometimes could be 3 times a week, sometimes nothing.

2 nights a week guaranteed . But he puts one kid to bed first

I get one night where I go to a class that starts during bedtime so he does bedtime that night.
Mine is not as guaranteed in that if there's family stuff to sort or the kids have been home ill e.g I've got work to do (I work 3.5 over 3 days) or if we're going somewhere for the weekend and I need to organise then my class goes on the backburner that week.

He lets me sleep in when he can though so that's our trade off as I'm a terrible morning person amd I go to work early and work late when I get home

He has many hobbies. Gardening, his car, golf, football, gaming. Usually once a week but he might game a few nights once our son is in bed. I don't mind watching him game as I usually help him 😂