What would you do if your mom is constantly making rude comments towards your husband?
She’s just constantly making rude comments and saying how he doesn’t know what he’s doing. My husband is a really good mechanic for heavy diesel equipment, and mining equipment. He knows what he’s doing. He works at one of the highest paying jobs in our state for being a mechanic
And they don’t seem to understand that, he’s tried to offer to help with changing simple parts on their vehicle and every time they deny and take it to a shop and are super rude about it and it really hurts his feelings because he knows he’s a good mechanic.
Every time I talk to her, she’s just constantly saying little things about him and it’s so frustrating
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Tbh I'd tell her that unless she starts respecting the man I'm choosing to spent the rest of my life with, she loses access to me and my family 🤷🏻♀️ you're not going to like everyone and if she doesn't like him for whatever reason that's her prerogative but she doesn't have to be a bitch 🤷🏻♀️

I feel there's more to the story, like was there something that happened in the past to cause your parents to feel that way, is there prejudice/racism or some sort of conflict that happened in the past? There is likely more to the story, and if you don't know maybe you need to ask them why they feel that way towards him.