Mil pushes and pushes for what she wants till she gets her way

My mil tries this. But my husband steps in. We mostly ignore her though. Its your husbands job to make sure MIL doesnt bother you. Literally his job. Direct all communication to HIM

Girl if you don’t put yo foot down with that woman she’s gonna continue to stir and it’ll bleed into your kids. Tell your man to check her or do it yourself it is not your job to keep that woman happy and it dang sure ain’t yo job to put up with bs either nip it in the bud before it gets worse

If you don’t have your husband on your side or on the same page, unfortunately it will never go your way or resolve.