Soo my friends has planned my gender reveal party for me and my partner and made invitations for the guest are coming
However my boyfriend has kicked and said she is very disrespectful because of it
Can anyone see why he’s has kicked off
And apparently I’ve ruin this relationship because of it
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Have you asked your bf to explain why he thinks it’s disrespectful?

Yeah ask him exactly what’s disrespectful

Maybe because his name isn’t on there?

I can only assume from the information you’ve given and the invite that he feels disrespected that his name isn’t also on there?
Ask him to elaborate on why he feels disrespected.

I’m assuming Joy is your name, so I’d say having only “Joy”, especially in capital letters, is a bit disrespectful, seeing as it’s the two of welcoming the baby x

If you guys are together, then ya I think it’s really disrespectful to not include his name on the invitations when it’s both y’all baby and you guys are wanting to celebrate together….

I mean he isn't mentioned on the invites at all and its his baby to. Ask him if this is a reason and what other reasons he feel disrespected if there are any. Gender reveals should be about both of you. The baby shower is about beby and mumma.

You even stated your friend is hosting a gender reveal party for you AND your partner. It’s only fair both of y’all’s name is on the invite. I can see why he’s upset.

I see his point because it’s his baby too he should be all over the invitation just like you are just because he isn’t growing it doesn’t mean he isn’t wanting to be involved. A lot of men feel left out during pregnancy because everyone focuses on the mum and baby which yes is typically the way because we go through it all but they get left out and dismissed and they just want to be included and appreciated aswell as it’s also their child and they are also excited🤷🏼♀️ I wouldn’t of even questioned my partner with this I’d of noticed it straight away and told my friends to change it because he is correct it is disrespectful to him