Help. Do you talk back at your husband when you both are angry or you keep quiet for him to talk and talk? I always talk back at the heat of the moment which has now caused a big hatred for one another . How do I not talk back because it’s draining and i just want to put a full stop to it. I know I’m supposed to remain silent but it’s hard to do .
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Let him say his piece then say yours have a code word for when he’s done always it should always be you guys against a problem never each other

Why should you stay silent?

My husband has this problem even when I dont talk 🥺

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You aren't supposed to be silent while someone talks at you. You are not a child or a pet, you are a full adult human being with just as much right to speak as he has.

Ew girl I’m sorry you don’t deserve to be treated like a subhuman say whatever u want its an argument! if he has a problem he’s not the one please leave 😭