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Mommas in their 20’s 🥳

Boyfriend being weird about me working

I was just offered an interview for a remote job, I am extremely excited about this because I have been dying to work for a long time and remote is even better right now.
The problem is that my boyfriend works 11 hour days Mon-Fri. 3p-2a.
The proposed schedule for my job is 10a-4p, 3 days a week. (Weekends as well but thats not an issue yet I guess)
My son will wake at 8am to start preparing for school & go down at 10pm so I said I could do 8a-10a with him (im pregnant so the baby too eventually) and my son can have maybe an hour downtime "alone" (naptime for baby) while i begin my shift and my boyfriend can wake at 11am and do lunch/hang out until he has to get ready and leave for work & then my son can have more "alone" time for about an hour until i finish my shift.
Like I said this would only be for 3 days a week where my boyfriend has to work & do childcare (I do 100% of childcare right now)
He is freaking out saying that his days are too long to help watch the kids for that time which I can understand but we had discussed me working multiple times and I told him he would need to pick up childcare for the fact that I cannot work & watch them (unfair to them) and if I am bringing in a paycheck it would make sense that he does atleast a few hours?
This just feels like he wants me to somehow do it all while he just works. He even said I should've just gone for a job at like 3am so I could be available for the full childcare day but then I would lose sleep, be contributing financially, 100% of childcare, 100% housecare. I don't know how to get through to him that he's acting selfish and lazy and really limiting our families potential because he can't handle extra work.