What did you find the best combo for your babies?

I'm due in September and will have a 14 month age gap between my babies and looking to find what way of going out with them is the easiest and why (write in the comments). I will be wanting to catch buses.

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Husbands Female Best Friend Wants to Move in...

I really, really, need advice.

My husband (21) has a best friend (20) who he's known since middle school. They're close and have been communicating on and off with each other for years. I've hung out with them as well and I do like her! She lives with her parents, and although they aren't wealthy, they are well off. They are forcing her to go to college (which she dislikes) but other than that I have no idea why she would want to move out. Today she asked my husband if she could move in with us. The problem is that we live in a one bedroom apartment. She said she'd take the couch in the living room. We also have a five month old baby.

I don't know what to feel. I don't think we have enough space as it is with us and the baby in one room. Our marriage has also been struggling since I'm dealing with PPD and we barely have sex as it is. Having her live with us would erase that entirely. Also, I just don't know if I'd be comfortable having someone outside of the family living with us in general. I feel like my space would be introuded on, even if I do like her. I feel like I'd have to put on a performance in my own home, if that makes sense? For context, I'm also neurodivergent and mask in public. Even though she's a friend of his, I still don't know her well enough to take this mask off.

I trust my husband, but I also just feel like having another woman in our space might be weird tbh. I don't think he'd cheat, but idk...