Do I need to feel guilty for feeling like „one and done“?

My boy is litte over 3 months old. My husband is away for work like 50% of the month and I‘m just super exausted all the time. Like I love my little nugget but do I wannna do all of that again? Certainly not….

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Am I being unreasonable?

For context I'm SAHM and my partner works from home 7.30-5:15ish without a lunch break. Very busy and on the phone most the day
He's started going to the gym with our neighbour who annoyingly wants to go at 5:30pm every day (No kids)
Every day it turns into an argument of why he can't just go at 6pm. There is no reason to go during the only bit of time you get to spend with your daughter. He thinks I'm being controlling. I reply the gym is more important than spending time with your daughter. It's starting to drive me insane. Am I being unreasonable??

Frustration rant about screen time shaming.

I constantly see moms posting about how their baby is screen free, how they leave their baby to play and get on with stuff and it’s draining to see.

my daughter is 9 months in a few days and does not use screens unless absolutely necessary to keep her distracted whilst I have to do something or we are travelling far and she is bored of all her toys and snacks.

I have a fomo baby who is VERY active. Attention span in toys is 2 seconds, gets bored very easy, is very clingy. I constantly rotate toys, get new toys, leave her to play, give her snacks but sometimes it’s not possible to do things with her after she’s bored of all her toys and snacks. I also give her things that are not toys like plastic cutlery and Containers etc but still it lasts 5 mins.

So I have to give a little bit of screen to just quickly get some stuff done. And I do feel that there’s some type of shaming online and in real life. Even from influencers who constantly say ‘this is my baby playing without screens whilst I do things’. But it’s easier when ur baby isn’t a fomo baby. I feel like parents or moms with very fomo active babies are very misunderstood.

I do want to say my daughter has about 10 mins of screen time in a whole week if that. But also does mean a lot of household work is not done or is done very slowly :/

Also any advice would help

I need help

Girls what we doing with baby when you’re about to shit yourself 😂. I can’t leave her for 2 minutes she’s all over the place touching things putting stuff in her mouth but I’ve just had to rush upstairs because I nearly shat myself 😂now panicking because I have no clue what she’s doing downstairs and I don’t want to bring her in the toilet with me because it’s gross

Wanting a divorce?

Hey everyone! I just need some advice , me and my husband been married for 3 years and we have a 19 month old . I’ve been wanting a divorce bc we gotten married way too early bc he was in the military but not anymore. Anyway the reason why I been wanting a divorce is because when I gave birth , he had told me he would stop playing a lot but he didn’t stop for days and nights. It was so bad I remember I’d spend days and weeks alone at night and sleep alone and it honestly made me feel not wanted. He stopped playing as much, only 2 times a week but he is always on his phone and when I try to ask him a question he answers with 3 words or less , it feels like I’m bothering him when I try to talk him at home. But when we are out he is normal and talks. Today he went to go play games bc we got into a fight bc I felt like he didn’t want to talk to me. I just need help or anything helps !!(he doesn’t want a divorce but I keep bringing it up )

Baby being left to cry

I feel like a bad mum.
For context I have a toddler (almost 2) as well as 5 week old.
There's some times where baby is crying and i literally cant go to him straight away because I'm dealing with toddler, or cooking etc
And i feel so bad when he's just there crying.
I feel bad even taking a shower because he often screams while I'm in there even if it's 10 minutes?

Holiday

A few questions for those who have travelled with a baby:

✈️ How old was your little one when you took them on their first holiday?

🧳 What were your must-have items that you were really glad you packed?

🌞 Were there any things you wish you’d taken with you or anything you packed that you didn’t end up using?

We’re taking our little girl on her first holiday soon and I’d really appreciate any tips or advice from those who’ve done it before. Thank you! ❤️