My due date is 21st December, I have another scan next week to confirm for sure as I was measuring more 11 weeks at my '12 week scan'. A lot of people are being really negative about the due date, saying my baby is going dislike their birthday. Any tips on decent replies back? Thank you!
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My mother in law is born on the 20 December and she always says how much she loves her birthday as everyone is always so happy and festive around Christmas š

My first was due on xmas day. I ignored people. But don't remember negative other than its not a great time to have a bday because of xmas and people having no money. My LO is now 2.
Have another one due on 15th December and people say things but I just say joint parties will be easy š

My best friendās birthday is on the 27th, and we always make an effort to celebrate with her. Weāre lucky to already be off work for it! People make the effort for those they care about, regardless of the time of year. ā¤ļø

My sisters birthday is the 22nd and sheās liked it as it was always at the start of the school holidays.
My partners is on Christmas Day and he loves his birthday as itās so festive and like a countdown to his birthday as well as Christmas.
My daughter was also born on the 14th December.
I havenāt got any specific replies but I guess everyone is usually in happier spirits over that time of year xx

I mean, I'd just be honest and say "Or they might love their birthday? "
Kid can't help when it's born. You can always do Xmas stuff separate to their birthday activities. Just save like crazy as it might hit harder financially

I feel like a great way to look at is that theyāll probably get to be on holiday break from school. Maybe see more people than they normally would because of the holidays. Be surrounded by friends and family. And people who matter will make a point to make them feel special for their birthday. Nothing wrong with all that š

Christmas is the most magical time of year. What a great time to have a birthday. Also most people are off at some point around that time so plenty of opportunities to celebrate with family. AND if you really wanted to, you could do a half birthday celebration in the summers.

Itās such a festive time the majestic vibe is priceless thereās so much decretive festive bits on
Thereās literally all year to put money aside
I wouldnāt pay any attention to negative comments

Thank you everyone š āŗļø

My daughter will be 4 on Christmas Eve. Sheās not at the age where she fully understands what date her birthday is. For me, I love it, very exciting. Makes it more magical but I will say for planning things for her birthday is a little difficult as some things Iāve had in mind arenāt open or they close early with it being Christmas. We do little celebrations in the summer and call it a half birthday.
I love Christmas, when buying my daughters presents I always make sure to buy for both occasions I make sure on Christmas Eve itās all birthday vibes and then just before bed she gets her Christmas Eve box which is of course Christmassy. I love how her birthday is Christmas Eve I call her my little Christmas babyā¤ļø donāt listen to other peopleās negative opinions. These things canāt really be helped and thereās nothing wrong with being a Christmas babyā¤ļø