Intimacy

How often do you and your partner have sex after having a baby? Specially if your baby is coming up to 1?

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On average about once every 5 days but thats full penetrative sex I normally do oral and things to him(he doesnt like giving as textures) during that time though x

About once a month for us! Can't believe anyone's got the time or energy for more frequently 😅 x

Hardly ever! I really can't be assed! 🤣

My boy is nearly 9 months and only just sleeping in his own room but since being in his own room we r up to twice a week now 😊 x

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