hey guys. so this is a 2 part question, feel free to respond to both or whichever one you see fit —
my rose has been in a drawer collecting dust for monthsss and i’ve been thinking about introducing it to our sex life, particularly during intercourse. those who use or have used it while having sex, did it make a difference? would you recommend? tips?
& two, how can i bring this up to my husband without him raising questions? i’m nervous, i don’t want him to think he isn’t satisfying me based on the fact that i want to add a sex toy to the mix, i love what he does and he satisfys me well enough. sometimes i just want the extra stimulation, i want to spice things up while being in the heat of the moment as well not just going off teasing, foreplay, etc. i’m sure it will benefit us both at the end of the day.
TIA .
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I can't help with the first part, as I don't use a rose although have been debating getting one.
As for part 2, I'd just be honest and open with your husband and say it's something you want to try. My husband loves when I use a toy during intercourse. Just because you want to introduce a toy doesn't mean he's not satisfying you

Ask him if it’d be ok. I honestly love using my v*brator during sex as the combo feels AMAZING! 10/10 recommend for sure. I don’t think he’d have an issue with it as it’s not super in the way or something.