Indoor playground for 1 year old?

Next week is my son's first birthday, I was thinking of taking him to one of those indoor playgrounds on his day (just him me and his dad) are those playgrounds fun and safe for a new 1 year old? He's not walking but does crawl. What is your experience?

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Help at home??

My fellow sahm’s..does your partner contribute to helping with ANY chores/tasks around the home?? Beyond basic cleaning, I take out the garbage, fix all of the small repairs (clogged pipes, changing lightbulbs etc) he doesn’t do so much as just picking up after himself. I will leave house spotless and go to sleep and throughout the night while he’s awake will leave all his drinks, snacks, trash, clothing, work stuff etc out on the floor and tables and it looks like a hurricane ran through the place and I start my day off with a complete mess over and over again. I’m cleaning up the same messes everyday with no help. Im already running around cleaning up the babies and my own messes all day, it takes me a lot more time with these conditions. Is this inconsiderate of him or simply just my job?

Vinted Dilemma

Hi I have a silly question as I’m genuinely unsure of what to do… apologies in advance that this not motherhood related!

I use Vinted a lot! To sell and buy, I received a top today and it has deodorant and armpit stains, to be honest this gross me out and pissed me off a bit because obviously it was not shown in the pictures, it was only £3 so I don’t know if I’d be making a big fuss by either reporting it was not as described as they do say it has to be significantly different which is not it’s just very dirty and cero attempt to clean it clearly or to accept it but leave a bad-ish review? I never leave bad reviews, if anything I make it a point to always leave good reviews because my score means a lot to me so I assume is the same for other people as well… what do you think??

Also, I don’t think I can even re sell the top because we know how difficult those stains are to solve!

Please help me

Me and my bf have a 22 month old, but my bf just doesn’t really ever help around the house or anything.. we are not a priority. He likes to sniff Ketamine and drink, he is also in debt and owes me a fair amount of money.
I am at the point of feeling like i need and want to split up with him, I am not happy. But for some reason i feel so guilty splitting up with him and asking him to move out.
Please can i have advice or something as i just feel completely drained and lost right now.
Do i end the relationship?

Boyfriend using me for sex and a place to live?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and our daughter is two. We live with my grandparents and they currently are supporting us. My boyfriend hasn’t had a job longer than 2 months before something happens and he gets fired or he quits. He like refuses to look for a job and doesn’t want to help with our child and with me having seizures I can’t really work. I’m just at a loss for what to do we need money but he just want to play video games and stay a child. I mean I babysit on the side for extra cash but he does nothing and he doesn’t even hang out with me at all. The only time he does is when he wants to have sex and then once that’s done he goes straight back to the game. His sleep schedule is even opposite. I just feel like he’s only with me because it’s convenient he’s broke got no job no car no place to live and no family to run to stay so I’m his only option.

What to do when home all day with baby

What does everyone do at home with their 9 month old? I don’t have family close by and my partner works full time, I’m finding it so hard to fill the days and I struggle to play all day. I let my baby have independent play but unsure what to do with myself when he’s playing? When you have days at home all day do you play with your babies constantly? Really struggling 😭

Teething & Temperatures

Did your little ones get a fever (38C or above) from teething? There’s so much mixed info on this.
It’s clear my little one is really teething and he recently spiked a temp and my sister is adamant it’s his teeth but I’m now worried something else is going on.