Should I be stressing this bad??

I’m 23 and just found out I’m pregnant (multiple positive tests, 6 days late). 🥹❤️ My fiancé and I are getting married in 83 days, and our joint bachelor/bachelorette trip is in 37 days.

This baby was definitely a happy surprise, and my fiancé’s reaction was the sweetest thing ever — he was all smiles and giggles. 🥹💕 The Godparents of our other 2 children knows, but nobody else does yet.

I’m over the moon excited, but also feeling overwhelmed. I keep worrying about:

• Being pregnant at our wedding.
• Whether my dress will still fit.
• How I’ll feel on the bach trip.
• Whether we should tell everyone before the wedding, announce it at the wedding, or afterwards.
• Just… everything. 😅

I know these are all blessings, and I’m so thankful, but I feel like I’m trying to process two huge life events at once and my brain is going a million miles an hour.

Any other mamas who planned a wedding while pregnant? Or found out right before their wedding? How far along were you, and do you have any advice? 🩷💙👶💍

Please tell me I’m not the only one who’s been both incredibly excited and completely stressed at the same time. 🫶🏼🥹💕

*picture for attention*

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Just here to complain/ find company in misery.

34 weeks with previa placenta. Ive already had a bad episode of blood clot bleeding with chunks in the toilet 2 weeks ago which they said was “fine and normal” when I went to the hospital… But since then, I’ve had the worst swollen feet/ numb hands/ yesterday my face was so swollen I couldn’t open my eyes for 2 hours. They haven’t ever diagnosed me with preeclampsia because my BP has always been average. But we got a BP cuff today & measured my boyfriends for baseline & mine was 174/103. Called my doc who’s always been annoyingly chill about everything & he said to take a Tylenol and if it’s still elevated to go in to hospital (an hour away). Anyone else in a similar boat? I’m anxious :/ previa + preeclampsia is hella high risk.

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