Bad feeling

I have a bad feeling. I'm 12w4 days with my 4th pregnancy. I miscarried my second pregnancy at 12w6d, they stopped growing 2 weeks earlier. I'm hoping this anxiety and this bad gut feeling is a trauma response and not something actually happening. I've read things about people having bad feelings and it ends up a miscarriage. This is the only pregnancy I've had with no bleeding, I've had ridiculous back and hip pain which scares me because back pain is a sign of miscarriage. Every little twinge just supports my bad feeling. I have a scan tomorrow and I'm absolutely terrified. I can't do this again if I've lost this one too. My three year old keeps asking if I'm okay and I'm trying so hard not too cry in front of her... Any experiences with bad gut feelings that were wrong?

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Your first ultrasound experience?

Any ladies felt any discomfort or pain? from the pressure? ive always felt sensitive if anyone touches my belly lol. the woman was rougher and the man was way better!

maybe my belly fat doesn’t help either. if i had done it myself it would have been less pain because it’s anticipated movements from my hands lol

Sex 5 weeks after c section?

Has anybody experienced having sex 5 weeks post c section? I’m not sure what the guidance is and I’m scared of it hurting/ causing any damage but do feel mentally ready.

Any advice please?

If you HAD TO - what you naming your baby girl?

And how would you nickname them to make it less awful

Baby number three💕

So I am seven weeks pregnant and typically I am toilet bound for six months of pregnancy because I can’t stop throwing up surprisingly though this pregnancy, I haven’t felt the slightest bit of nausea whatsoever. My first two were girls could this one possibly be a boy?😍

6 weeks not 9? 🤷

So today I had a scan because I have been spotting since Friday. Because the NHS measure your weeks from the first day of your last period, I was told I was 9 weeks. But today on the scan, they saw no obvious reason for bleeding, a sack and a tiny embryo that was 6 weeks not 9.

I have PCOS so my implantation and ovulation could have been delayed from what I thought, but also because I was tracking everything, I believe conception was on the 27/28th April which would actually put me at the 6 weeks that is showing on the scan.

I’m hoping this is the case as otherwise it would be a delayed miscarriage. Although with all the spotting, it’s possible that’s still happening…has anyone else had similar examples of weird or wrong dating, or spotting at 6 weeks that would be light, slightly heavier, ramping up in the middle of the day and then getting lighter again over night…???

Thanks for listening 😬❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Scans with a toddler

With my first child I ended up going for a lot of growth scans in the end because I was measuring small! I’m now coming up to that time with my second and just wondering what was to happen if I needed to go for one but don’t have anyone to have my daughter(18 months).
Like I know you can’t take children to scans but surely they would have to make an exception no? Same if worst comes to worst and I had to go to triage for some reason? I don’t see how they would just tell you that you can’t go because of your other child. Does anyone have experience of this?