Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

I just want to be dead, not kill myself, just die in my sleep or something

I left my ex bc he was being abusive and I miss him so fucking much, how can you love someone and hate them so much at the same time. He gave me back some of my stuff and in it was a shirt of his I always stole and wore...I'm wearing it rn and I can't fucking stop sobbing, it's 1am and I just want to die, I want my life back, I want my love back, I can't do this alone

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Long car journeys with 5 month old baby

My family live about 1 hour away, more so 1.30 hour with traffic, I’d like to start going to visit whilst on maternity with my baby but I’m anxious for the long car journeys, especially if we get held up in traffic. My baby is usually ok in the car but I’ve only ever done short trips with her and the only horrific time was during the heatwave where she was tired and overheating even in her nappy. Any advice on how to keep her preoccupied in the back with nobody there to comfort her and without stopping? There are no services during this journey so I don’t plan on stopping. I play lullabies and let her hear my voice if she cries. She has her toy hanging down from the car seat handle bar. Is there anything I can attach to the car seat for her to look at or keep her busy? Any tips? I always make sure she’s had a feed before we set off etc… I can’t bear the thought of her crying whilst on the motorway and there’s nothing I can do!

Advise on 3 month olds movements

Hey guys I need some advise is this normal behaviour for my 3 month old? She does this quite often, mainly in the day time. She frails her hands around a lot. I have no idea why she does that but she seems to be doing it more often than before. Please ignore the blanket it’s the only way we can keep her dummy in otherwise it will just keep falling out her mouth.

Injections

My baby had his injections on Friday and since then he has been feeding less at night, he used to take a 120ml bottle no problem but now during the night he only takes about 80, he drinks 120 in the day per feed but it does take longer than it used to, should I be worried? He’s having wet nappies no problem.

How is everyone survivigg ?

Mum of 2 . New born and toddler who does not go nursery full time. Partners gone back to work and I'm dreading having them alone with no sleep 😩. I am currently functioning on 2 hrs of sleep and have a toddler to get up tomorrow. Any advice please 😅

Please suggest something im running out of ideas!

Anyone else have an almost 3 month old that screams harshly for hours? Causes ruled out are colic and reflux. Doctor says infant dyschezia but symptoms do not happen during/before bowel movements and she passes stool without trying most of the time? Not sure if asking these things are allowed but im so stumped i dont know what to do. Thank you in advance.

Milk Bleb

Does anyone have any tips on healing a milk bleb, the throbbing is unreal 😩 I’m thinking of stopping breastfeeding soon aswell, will this clear up if I’m no longer producing milk?