Vasectomy

Was anyone else sad when their SO was ready to schedule a consult and appt to get snipped ? I decided I was done having kids and that’s y he ready to schedule the appts but was anyone else sad too ?

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No, I’m not sad. 😂

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I don’t know if I’m genuinely sad bc it means no more forever or if it’s my pp hormones making me extra emotional

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Oh yes! I've been there! I wanted more kids but my body just couldn't handle having anymore. Its all been a very sad process for me and ive struggled accepting it

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I don’t want to risk another loss and I also think financially it would be wise for me to stop having kids now after 2 compared to the 5 we originally wanted

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My husband had his almost a year ago and im still a little sad about it 😅😂

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My partner is scheduled his next Thursday and I absolutely do not want anymore and I am ready to start the beginning of forever where I am now. There’s just something inside me that’s sad. I’m not sure if it’s because although we’ve decided together, it’s almost like the choice is being taken away from us. Or if it’s because every 1st I’ve had with my 3 babies, I’ll never get to do again. It’s not that I want more, it’s that I’m sad I won’t experience the 3 that I have again.. does that make sense??
I’m so glad I came across this post because I thought I was going crazy

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I was a little sad! Even though I knew we were for sure done, there is something bittersweet about the end of this important era of our lives.

I think we could have had 10 kids and I would still have been a little sad when it was over

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