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My marriage has been failing for many years. I married a man I thought I loved. He’s a good guy never cheated on me never raised a hand to me. Has a kind heart and very handsome. When we first met I earned a very high salary as did he. Whirlwind romance we married and fell pregnant quickly. I had a late term loss. I didn’t cope well. He didn’t support me at all. Instead he treated me rather poorly and my love begun to fade. I quit work stepped down and earned a lower salary whilst supporting him excelling in his business. Now he’s on a 6 figure salary. Whatever I want I have. But I am constantly reminded that he is the high earner.
Our marriage lost love and respect a long time ago for a number of reasons. Whatever he done to me I loved him and I stayed. When I finally walked he begged me back and after weeks I caved and returned home. Fast forward a couple of years I am 4 mo this post partum and we have 4 young children. The arguing is daily. Were misrible and have agreed to begin divorce proceedings. Today he told me he hasn’t loved me for a long time. It broke my heart. I’ve been praying for this marriage to end a long time but now he’s finally admitted he is not in love with me why does it hurt so much? Sometimes I feel weak I cry. If he catches me he’ll say things like “my god crying again? Wow” I just want to snap my fingers and be at the other end of this.
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I cant imaging how you are feeling, but you know, sometimes we forgot our value and look at the past of what we were but that just hurts us more, don’t push yourself down, I know leaving the person you think you love for so long even though you know is not healthy and to be honest deep inside you know you don’t love him as well hurt because you might be really attached but not love related just emotional attached which is really different let me tell you that as soon as you leave, the life will look better and you will feel alive again you are strong mama you can do this and more never feel alone if you need to talk I am here xxx
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