I’ve accepted that I’m never gonna find friends

In this day and age there is no way I’m about to make any friends. Everyone is so selfish and stuck up and and it takes literally nothing for everyone to get weirded out or just staring up not like you. I can’t even get ONE single conversing out of anyone and no one is actually willing to try to go out and meet and get to know each other everyone just wants to send memes back and forth and like each other stuff on socials and that’s really boring… I live in a rural area in Missouri, Washington, and literally NONE of the moms out here want friends. Like everyone has their clique and they just need you to know you’re never gonna be apart of it. I hate being alone and I want someone to hang out with and make memories with and instead I’m stuck in this generation that let this social anxiety run there lives and gets this “ick” over everything. It’s like no one even actually wants friends they just want a reason to bitch or they jus don’t want to see how they cause their own loneliness by being so judgmental of everyone

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Sorry you’re having such a hard time. Meeting people is so rough in this day and age, honestly. I’m having a hard time here in Maine too, mostly for the lack of population of new moms.

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So sorry you are having a hard time! I feel you as I'm experiencing the same thing and I live in NH. I've been a part of many mom groups around the area but everyone has their friend group already and no effort is being made on their end to meet up. I also moved here almost 2 years ago and it's been hard meeting friends even without being a new mom. Hope you meet someone randomly one day - it usually happens that way!

In the meantime, you can message me directly if you want to talk :)

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Anyone else's partner lack common sense?!

My partner is a complete & utter COCK when it comes to using common sense.

Items will literally make it easy for you by saying 'open here' or 'peel here' & he'll still take a knife & cut through it & then it loses its freshness cuz it's opened incorrectly 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

He opens tins with a knife like an animal when we've got a can opener in the draw. Ugh, I really don't understand how men's brains (if they've got one) works!! 🤬

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Going back to highest earner …

On my last poll yesterday, nearly 50% of participants said that highest earner earns over £50,001 annually, sooo.
Highest earner in your household earns …

(Just curious to see higher tax payers in UK)

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What happens next long post

My marriage has been failing for many years. I married a man I thought I loved. He’s a good guy never cheated on me never raised a hand to me. Has a kind heart and very handsome. When we first met I earned a very high salary as did he. Whirlwind romance we married and fell pregnant quickly. I had a late term loss. I didn’t cope well. He didn’t support me at all. Instead he treated me rather poorly and my love begun to fade. I quit work stepped down and earned a lower salary whilst supporting him excelling in his business. Now he’s on a 6 figure salary. Whatever I want I have. But I am constantly reminded that he is the high earner.
Our marriage lost love and respect a long time ago for a number of reasons. Whatever he done to me I loved him and I stayed. When I finally walked he begged me back and after weeks I caved and returned home. Fast forward a couple of years I am 4 mo this post partum and we have 4 young children. The arguing is daily. Were misrible and have agreed to begin divorce proceedings. Today he told me he hasn’t loved me for a long time. It broke my heart. I’ve been praying for this marriage to end a long time but now he’s finally admitted he is not in love with me why does it hurt so much? Sometimes I feel weak I cry. If he catches me he’ll say things like “my god crying again? Wow” I just want to snap my fingers and be at the other end of this.

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Does anyone else feel unseen or heard when it comes to bringing your baby around other people including family? A lot of the time I try to have a conversation with my family about something un baby related I find myself talking to myself because said people are talking / making faces at my baby instead? It’s starting to make me feel over looked and forgotten? It also follows along with the fact that no one ever wants to see me because they miss me but because they miss my baby? 🤷‍♀️

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Want to meet up?

I’m in Akron, I’m 29 ,any mom want to meet and be friends forever after ? Lol 😂. Honestly would love some company when I go out with my boys (6&3) to the library and playground.. I’m tired of half texting so please please please don’t message me if u don’t want a friend for real. Look at my page see if u like me enough first to meet up lol . 😂 jokes. but hit me up so we can go to a splash pad r something this week .


Oh and I’m extremely afraid of dogs , I AM NOT A DOG LOVER. Pretty much all animals.

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can you be friends with someone you disagree with politically?

specifically for new friends

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