Maybe just me

Why is it so hard to make genuine friends as an adult?

Not just people to chat with once in a while, but real friends.

The kind of friend you can randomly text at 2 PM because something reminded you of them.
The kind who will hop on FaceTime just to talk about absolutely nothing.
The kind who will watch anime, movies, or shows with you, send you random memes, share music, and just vibe.

Someone who listens.
Someone who cares.
Someone who doesn’t disappear when life gets busy.

At this point, I don’t even care if they’re local or long distance. I think I just miss having a genuine connection with someone.

Maybe it’s just me, but making real friendships feels a lot harder than it should. 🤔

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I agree.. I kind of feel the same way.
People just stop showing interest for whatever reason smh

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I’m in the same boat. People just stop talking and idk why

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