Trying for baby#2 . No luck

My first is 2.5. Hubs and I have been trying for a year now (not EVERY month.. we have skipped a few). But im still not pregnant. I used the ovulation tracker and pee stick last few months and still nothing.. Im starting to get worried now esp. because my first pregnancy happened after just one try. It also doesn’t help that all my friends who wanted a second already have one and everyone keeps asking me when Im planning on having a second. Im feeling very anxious about this now.

3

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

Good morning I’ll say stop being anxious about it and just go with the flow. It will happen when it’s supposed to happen once you stop stressing about it or stop being anxious about it and don’t even think about it but knowing that you wanna have one when you and your husband naturally just tried to conceive it will happen then.

Even when I was trying for my second baby, for a couple of months, it didn’t work, and I was anxious but things will work out eventually. Just manage your stress, anxiety and diet.

How old are you? How long are your cycles? Are they regular? If you know you've been timing sex appropriately with ovulation, you could always check in with your OB or a fertility specialist.

in our community

Trying for baby#2 . No luck

My first is 2.5. Hubs and I have been trying for a year now (not EVERY month.. we have skipped a few). But im still not pregnant. I used the ovulation tracker and pee stick last few months and still nothing.. Im starting to get worried now esp. because my first pregnancy happened after just one try. It also doesn’t help that all my friends who wanted a second already have one and everyone keeps asking me when Im planning on having a second. Im feeling very anxious about this now.

3

Deportation

My boyfriend being deported is the worst thing ever, especially when we have our one year old and one on the way :( my biggest fear came true, I’m so hurt that I have to give birth alone :(

2

4

Is this baby not sticking? Help/advice

Hey guys, I have been taking tests for line progression. The top test was two nights ago and the very bottom is tonights. I got a positive clear blue digital this afternoon (1-2 weeks)but then my evening boots test seems a lot lighter? Can this sometimes happen or is there likely something wrong. I will say too the second bottom boots test was only taken this afternoon! Would hcg drop so much in a few hours or is my urine just not great tonight? I’m panicking so any help would be really appreciated 🥺😢

4

Grandparents helping out

How much do grandparents help out?
Or do they not offer at all?
Interested in working parents, do they help in reducing days baby/child needs to be in nursery? Kids school holidays etc?

Do people think the boomer generation have the wrong reputation in not wanting to help with grandkids?

15