Husband paid online live show while I'm pregnant

Hello. Currently 29 weeks pregnant and my husband went on this online webcam with naked women. He paid for it £65. But then was offered that there's in person live show near where we live that he willingly took and paid £300. He was asked to buy apple gift cards and top it up with that amount. He went to the place he was told but ended up as a scam. There's no actual live show.

He told me 2 days after that happened. I was so upset. I could understand him sexually frustrated but I'm high risk and had 1 previous miscarriage. I'm being careful with this one.

I still work full time and he does part time. He's not much involved with nesting as well as paying for baby stuff.

I don't know what I want out of this post but I just want to vent out. I work overseas and most of my family are miles away. Not much support system with me here. It's getting the best of me.

This is a rainbow baby and I've been walking on eggshells since the start of this pregnancy and now the added distress of cheating.

I was looking forward to delivering and meeting the baby but with this happening, I don't know how to feel about it now.

Anyone who had similar experience and how did you cope. No bashing please.

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