I really don’t get my role as a step mom … like I take the girl to school pick her up do her hair feed her shit I even have a copy of her birth certificate!! She has everything she needs at my house from a toothbrush to drawls to her own personal snacks and I don’t even live with her dad yet! She’s 4 I’ve been with her dad for 3 years but only really in her life for 2. Him and her mom had been in a custody battle ever since I met him it’s literally just now getting closed maybe a month ago. So it’s court ordered that she gets her on weekends and he keeps her through the week but she’s been with her mom since last Friday ( today’s Friday again ) . He called me complaining about how she didn’t take her to school for Monday and Tuesday then she finally got her to school Wednesday but at 12:23 noon and she didn’t put a uniform on her she sent her in a short set outfit to school. So im like ” well isn’t she supposed to be with you anyways why did u let her keep her for the whole week “ so he gets mad and he is like “ why are u even asking me that I feel like your trying to be funny what me and my baby mother work out for our child is between us “ I just said “ok so why are u telling me about it” now he’s tryna tell me how I don’t care and he can’t never talk to me about stuff but if I can’t voice my opinion and ask questions what the hell is the point of you telling anything concerning y’all’s child ? It’s a mess i dont get my place…
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Sounds like he doesn’t want to be called on his own shit, just talk crap about his BM, but also wants you to be babysitter. I say babysitter because he doesn’t seem to want to include you, just talk at you about it