Struggling with identity

I just became a stay at home mum right after graduating…I didn’t really have time to work and earn anything after studying for 7 years to get my bachelors degree and masters now I feel like I wasted my time in school. And I see my partner going to work and my friends achieving stuff and I feel like I am left behind…i was even playing basketball before I got pregnant but now with my new born I can’t do that I just watch my partner go do what he likes and I can’t do the same and I feel so lonely and heartbroken about it…idk if there is anyone who has been in the same situation before and how did you get over it…especially being in a. Foreign land where you don’t speak the same language as them plus you don’t drive yet 😭😭😭😭

Also if there are any sites I can get a remote job I would be grateful maybe I can start exercising my degrees and be financially independent

Help out please

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