Married FTM in their twenties?!

Hi! I’m 10 weeks pregnant (with my first) and recently married, so I’m looking for friends in the same season… but I can’t seem to find ANYONE my age (20s)? I know nowadays it’s less popular to be married in your early twenties, but now I feel like the only one. 🥲 Anyone else?

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Break up or forgive?!

I just turned 8 months pregnant and I found out my baby daddy is on hinge.
He said he only went there because we had a little argument the day before and said he didn’t do anything.
Plus he had been texting other girls on instagram too!
He keeps saying sorry but honestly I don’t believe him no more, some of my friends say that I’m being to emotional because of my hormones. Honestly idk what to do!!! Mind this is the third time he messes up!🙄🙄
Should I break up with him or just forgive him???

Help me

I recently discovered that my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy and continued the affair after our baby was born. During the pregnancy he was cold, distant, and repeatedly told me he was “frustrated.” A few days after I gave birth, he told me he wasn’t happy and didn’t feel anything for me. I was heartbroken and scared.

I stayed with my parents for a few days, but he didn’t want me to return home quickly. When I eventually came back, I found messages confirming the affair. When I told my parents, they said they couldn’t help me and were more worried about social status than my wellbeing.

When I confronted my husband, he blamed me. He said it was my fault for not keeping him happy, that I should have expected it, and that he had done nothing wrong. He has shown no remorse, no apology, and he is still in contact with the other woman, who works with him and whom I knew professionally.

I feel trapped. I have no financial stability, no support from my family, and nowhere to go with my baby. Currently on maternity leave, I am worried if i go for a full time job then how will I look after my baby. All of my earnings have been invested into our property assets. I earn a basic wage, while he is carrying a significant amount of personal debt. However, he does have a stable job with a strong salary

I am trying to understand my options and find a way forward, but right now I feel overwhelmed and alone.

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Support for First Time Dads.

Hello,

I was just wondering if anyone knew of anywhere that my partner could talk to other first time / new dads.

Thank you xx

Need 2 vent

I got pregnant with my baby daddy 2 months of knowing him🙄 stupid Ik but anyways when I was pregnant he would always bring up his ex drunk and sober. He would tell me that if she wanted him back that he would leave me and our son and just a lot of stuff like that .Part of me understands where he is coming from since they were together since middle school (9 years together) I stay because I really do love him but now I resent him. I used 2 love 2 do stuff for him. Have his clothes ready for him in the morning, make him food and every night I would massage his whole body. When we fight he is real quick 2 want 2 leave me and usually I beg him 2 stay but a few days ago when we were fighting I told him how come with your ex you stayed even tho she put you thew a lot and you are so fast 2 want 2 leave me . He told me because his ex was the love of his life and I’m just someone he got pregnant and he would never love me like her . Now I don’t see the point of doing stuff for him anymore. What should I do?

Step mom life ?

I really don’t get my role as a step mom … like I take the girl to school pick her up do her hair feed her shit I even have a copy of her birth certificate!! She has everything she needs at my house from a toothbrush to drawls to her own personal snacks and I don’t even live with her dad yet! She’s 4 I’ve been with her dad for 3 years but only really in her life for 2. Him and her mom had been in a custody battle ever since I met him it’s literally just now getting closed maybe a month ago. So it’s court ordered that she gets her on weekends and he keeps her through the week but she’s been with her mom since last Friday ( today’s Friday again ) . He called me complaining about how she didn’t take her to school for Monday and Tuesday then she finally got her to school Wednesday but at 12:23 noon and she didn’t put a uniform on her she sent her in a short set outfit to school. So im like ” well isn’t she supposed to be with you anyways why did u let her keep her for the whole week “ so he gets mad and he is like “ why are u even asking me that I feel like your trying to be funny what me and my baby mother work out for our child is between us “ I just said “ok so why are u telling me about it” now he’s tryna tell me how I don’t care and he can’t never talk to me about stuff but if I can’t voice my opinion and ask questions what the hell is the point of you telling anything concerning y’all’s child ? It’s a mess i dont get my place…