Break up or forgive?!

I just turned 8 months pregnant and I found out my baby daddy is on hinge.
He said he only went there because we had a little argument the day before and said he didn’t do anything.
Plus he had been texting other girls on instagram too!
He keeps saying sorry but honestly I don’t believe him no more, some of my friends say that I’m being to emotional because of my hormones. Honestly idk what to do!!! Mind this is the third time he messes up!🙄🙄
Should I break up with him or just forgive him???

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Leave him. And give me the encouragement to finally follow through with leaving mine! Lmao

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I left mine, not too long ago, and my life has gotten so much better since. He sounds like a fuck boy, do you really want to spend your life having babies with a fuck boy?

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I know it’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do. I’m just being harsh because sometimes in the situation that’s the only thing that’s gonna get you out of it.

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Leave him!

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I’m sure he has followed through on some of this already. He’ll never admit it. But if you keep accepting his apologies and forgiving him, he’s definitely gonna get with something eventually is that something you wanna wait around for?

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He’s only sorry he got caught girlie. If you forgive him you’re basically showing him what behaviour you accept and he’s likely to just repeat it again or do something worse.

He’s on hinge for a reason clearly to find himself a quick beat when he should be looking after the mother of his future child. You deserve better 😞

As for your friends???? Are they okay in the head….

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Get rid of him once a cheat always a cheat

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No I’d leave x

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So sorry you are experiencing this when all you need at this moment is total love and care. To leave or stay is your decision. However, I will like to point it out to you that a man that cheats when his partner or wife is vulnerable has no respect for you nor his baby. I wish you the very best and I pray you have the courage to do what’s best for you and the baby. Remember the hardest decisions are the best and right decisions❤️

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Leave, a man who can do that when you are pregnant isn’t a man at all! You better off without him boo x

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A cheater is always a cheater till they die girl and why are your friends say that to you?

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Leave! A little argument turns him to other women hell nahhh youll have arguements all the time once baby gets here and itll be easier without that bullshit. Sorry youre dealing with this but you deserve better

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To be honest I believe men do this again and again because women tend to forgive them easily. I also believe if men do that then they do don’t respect you or your feelings, you will have to give him ultimatum….

My friend went through this during pregnancy when it’s the most hardest times and he still hasn’t changed after 5 years… there are some harsh truth out here and I really do hope you find peace within yourself and baby 💌✨🙏🏼

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BREAK UP WITH HIM

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Leave him. If he os talking to others and going on dating sites after an argument then he isnt worth it

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Run.

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That’s horrible if it’s the third time and he was on hinge and Instagram dms you should break up. I do see how ur at the end of the pregnancy and it’s so hard cus baby’s coming soon but you don’t deserve that you guys can just coparent.

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Break up or forgive?!

I just turned 8 months pregnant and I found out my baby daddy is on hinge.
He said he only went there because we had a little argument the day before and said he didn’t do anything.
Plus he had been texting other girls on instagram too!
He keeps saying sorry but honestly I don’t believe him no more, some of my friends say that I’m being to emotional because of my hormones. Honestly idk what to do!!! Mind this is the third time he messes up!🙄🙄
Should I break up with him or just forgive him???

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