Would you describe yourself as..

Racist?
Obviously this is an anonymous poll so I wonder if anyone thinks of themselves as this? I’ve heard a lot of “I’m not racist but” then an obviously racist remark being said and wonder if people genuinely believe the first line they’ve just said. This is not to start an argument in the comments section…it’s I guess a fairly straight forward question.

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in our community

Feeling all sorts of ways- racial tensions

Anyone else feeling scared of the increasing intensity and frequency of race riots in the UK?

Also, before shit hits the fan like it does on other platforms (i can't believe) i have to say i think all perpetrators of violence are scum, whatever they may look like 👍

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Personal advice

I had a hunch so I checked my partners messages and he joined a porn sever and messaged one of the girls on there asking if her dms were open. Nothing happened but I'm still quite hurt that he even thought about messaging another girl. He said its because he lost control because I haven't done anything sexual in months (we have a 2 month old) idk if I can forgive and just need opinions

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Maternity leave

When is normal time to go off on maternity leave?
I was trying to work as long as possible before baby comes but I’m currently 31 weeks and struggling !!

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Do you struggle with empathy ?

I feel like I really struggle having empathy for people, all I hear is aaa im a victim aaa im like this cos of this. I can really sympathise for people but I guess where I had it so tough growing up and into adulthood that I just get on with things yes it’s hard but I don’t ever use it as a excuse I use it as a reason to be better . I can’t stand weak people I guess that’s my problem! Does anyone relate or have any insight into this behaviour as I feel awful that I can’t give better advice other than suck it up be strong you can get through any thing !! 🙈

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I Need someone to talk to

I need someone to talk to I’m losing my shit right now

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Maybe just me

Why is it so hard to make genuine friends as an adult?

Not just people to chat with once in a while, but real friends.

The kind of friend you can randomly text at 2 PM because something reminded you of them.
The kind who will hop on FaceTime just to talk about absolutely nothing.
The kind who will watch anime, movies, or shows with you, send you random memes, share music, and just vibe.

Someone who listens.
Someone who cares.
Someone who doesn’t disappear when life gets busy.

At this point, I don’t even care if they’re local or long distance. I think I just miss having a genuine connection with someone.

Maybe it’s just me, but making real friendships feels a lot harder than it should. 🤔

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