Hey Ladies!

I’m located in North County San Diego area and looking for friends as a FTM. My baby girl is 2 months and I’m on maternity leave for another month. Would love to meet some other mothers out there looking for friends in the area 😊♥️

in our community

No sex

So I have worked out me and my
Boyfriend have only had sex 6 times this year. When I saw them numbers I was crying.

For the last 2 years our sex life is non existent unless I initiate. I got tired of doing it and makes me feel unwanted.

Now sex only happens if I have a breakdown about it or it’s a special occasion, but again I feel that’s him just trying to tick a box cause he knows I’ll be upset.

He knows exactly how I feel about it and he’s promised he will try harder but it NEVER happens. It’s more frustrating because he is affectionate with kissing cuddling and rubbing like we are going to have sex but it doesn’t happen.

So I literally have anxiety now when it does happen cause I think well when will be the next one, probably not another month or he’s just doing it for my benefit.

I cry pretty much weekly about it , I’m only 32 and I am feel a lot of resentment, hatred and just ignored.

I’ve always had a high labido and I’m 30 weeks pregnant and still want sex but I just feel devastated because I know once the baby is here it’ll NEVER happen.

Struggling with identity

I just became a stay at home mum right after graduating…I didn’t really have time to work and earn anything after studying for 7 years to get my bachelors degree and masters now I feel like I wasted my time in school. And I see my partner going to work and my friends achieving stuff and I feel like I am left behind…i was even playing basketball before I got pregnant but now with my new born I can’t do that I just watch my partner go do what he likes and I can’t do the same and I feel so lonely and heartbroken about it…idk if there is anyone who has been in the same situation before and how did you get over it…especially being in a. Foreign land where you don’t speak the same language as them plus you don’t drive yet 😭😭😭😭

Also if there are any sites I can get a remote job I would be grateful maybe I can start exercising my degrees and be financially independent

Help out please

Need some friends

Need some friends as I have like 0 just looking to make friends to go out with and also going out with the babies as well. In the Basingstoke area or even reading

Still looking for my forever best friend ❤️

I’m still searching for that forever best friend who I can be there for and vent to and all the other things in between ☺️ I am 29 have got a little boy who’s 8 will be nine in December he also got autism and ADHD too we are temporarily living in Bexley till me, him and his dad can find our forever home we got our two pooches as well ☺️❤️

I need to vent

So i moved from Europe to America to be with my husband and after that i had my baby 7 months ago, all of my friends were so excited for me and gave me an impression that they are so excited to become “aunties”. First couple of months most of them talked about coming to visit me and see the baby, and obviously they still haven’t made any plans on coming. And it’s so hard to make friends in a new country, especially now as a mom… guess I just feel so hurt because I wouldn’t have done that to them. But I know I can’t expect me in other people. It’s been really lonely, and despite me saying this they keep saying they will come but I know they won’t. I also don’t have any siblings, my mom is on the older side and she can’t travel back and forth like that, and my dad passed away few years ago.

Anyways thank you to whoever took their time to read this and have my moment 🥹

Leaving baby

Has anyone left their baby with their partner or a close family member yet? I’m starting to feel quite overwhelmed with motherhood and honestly just think I need an afternoon with my friends to just not have to think for a second but I feel so guilty for wanting to just switch off and recharge😬