Is this normal?

I am nearly 6 months pp and I thought I was finally through all of my postpartum mental health but now I have been experiencing extreme sadness and panic about the fact I will never be my old self again. I will never be living for just myself, the girl I was before feels so far gone and I don’t know who I am or how to be happy being whoever that is. I love my baby, and love being her mommy dont get me wrong, but I am not happy with myself, and lately I am not happy in my marriage. My husband is childish and he stresses me out. I love him with all my heart but he only says it’s mutual, he does not treat me like it is. And I feel terrible because I have gotten close to my coworker lately and I think he is into me and he knows Im married but I have talked with him about how I feel unhappy with my husband and he’s never tried anything with me but I think I made him feel like the door is open. I have never cheated and would never do that but I feel like I am emotionally cheating because I am catching feelings for this coworker. He gives me those butterflies I used to feel and he makes me feel like my old self. He is not somebody I would normally be attracted to and I never even thought he was good looking, I don’t even know if I really do now but I know that I like being around him and he makes me feel seen in ways my husband never has. I feel like I am doing something wrong. Has this happened to anybody else of am I just a piece of shit?

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What to do 😩

My daughter is a side sleeper. I put her down on her back every single time and she rolls onto her side and will fall asleep. She's never rolled over onto her tummy yet but I'm paranoid waiting for the day she can and I won't sleep again until she can fully hold her head up 😩😩😭😭 she's 2 weeks and 5 days old.

I've tried constantly moving her back onto her back, every single time she moves onto her side or fusses until I let her. Once she's on her side she'll drift off into a peaceful sleep. I'm forever constantly checking her to see if she'a breathing or rolled onto her tummy and gotten stuck.

The picture is of the position she will get herself into every time. With her hand under her head. I'm lost for ideas please help 😭😩

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