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Miscarriage Support 👼

Let's talk ! 2 miscarriages & condoms

Me & my partner made a agreement at the moment it's best to use condoms having two miscarriages back to back.
This agreement we based on not been long term as we do wanna try again for a baby when the timing is right for us both .
First time using condoms in nearly 3 years and I feel absolutely emotional about it .
Let me explain why on my side I did purchase the ultra thin ones so it felt natural on both sides for us .
Myself the first experience I would say went well I felt comfortable.
My partner on the other hand I felt absolutely awful for because we have never used them before and probably needs time getting used to them ..
For first time in all them years his struggled to finished we don't problems normally by the way we are pretty active.
Would you say my feelings are a little valid on feeling upset for him and over time will the experience on his side change.
I do feel for him and mentioned me going on protection but that was ruled out beginning of the conversation and again after are first experience after the 2nd lost.
Someone please tell me it gets better?